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對人的態度

粵語國語

第29天

讀經： 羅馬書十二章9至21節

在經文中，第二組形容聖靈果子的三個詞，包括我們外在待人的品行，那就是「忍耐、恩慈和良善」。「忍耐」是特別指對人的忍耐。許多時候，我們對於機械性的器具比對人更能忍耐。我們只要容讓聖靈在我們的心中工作，祂便能夠讓我們生出忍耐。我們可能未必喜歡祂的方法；可是，祂一定會賜下足夠的恩典，讓我們可以面對任何環境與個人，來鍛煉我們的忍耐。

「恩慈」和「良善」的意思相近，可以解作對人關心體貼。恩慈往往與慷慨施贈有關。良善的行動包括對人體貼、親切與憐憫，給予別人諒解與支持。

我們的主在世的時候，經常以恩慈待人。連小孩子也感受到祂的親切，從不懼怕親近祂，或坐在祂的膝頭上。祂甚至在十字架上，還記掛著母親。一個恩慈的人總是想著別人的需要。

恩慈、良善的相反就是對人苛刻、喜歡批評、缺乏愛心、咄咄逼人，當他人失敗或與自己意見不合時更是尖酸刻薄。這些態度當然不能在我們身上反照出基督的形象。箴言十五章4節說：「恩慈的話帶來生命；殘忍的話使人心碎。」（GNB中譯）

請細讀羅馬書這段教訓，當中包含了許多待人之道，差不多有三十處。今天就求神幫助你在神話語的光照下檢視自己，有哪些地方需要改正？有哪些地方需要改進？閱讀神話語的目的正在於此──讓真理改變我們的生命。求神讓我們照著經文的教導而行。

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OUR CONDUCT TOWARD OTHERS

Day 29

Bible Reading: Romans 12:9-21

The second triplet in those verses on the fruit of the Spirit covers our outward conduct toward others. The words are “patience, kindness, and goodness”. The word used here for patience means to be patient with people. It is easier at times to be patient with mechanical objects than to be patient with other people. The Holy Spirit residing in us can develop patience in us if we allow Him. We may not like the way He wants to do it but He will give us the grace to face any situation or person where patience is needed.

Kindness and goodness are words with similar meanings. They could be translated as thoughtfulness. Kindness is often linked with generosity. Thoughtfulness is goodness in action, tenderness, and compassion. It is sympathetic and supportive of others.

Our Lord showed kindness to many while He was here on earth. Even children recognised this and were never afraid to approach Him or sit on His knee. He was thoughtful of His mother even while hanging on the cross. A kind person is thoughtful of the needs of others.

The opposite of these words could be harshness, criticism, lack of love, aggression, being hard on those who fail or do not agree with us. Surely none of those attitudes could ever reveal Christ in our lives. Proverbs 14:4 in the GNB says, “Kind words bring life, but cruel words crush the spirit.”

Take time to look again at the phrases or commands written here in this chapter of Romans. They cover so much of our behaviour toward others. There are almost 30 direct statements, depending on how you count them. Ask God today to help you look at your own life in the light of this passage. Are there areas which need to be changed? Are there those which need to be developed? One of our purposes in reading the Word of God is right here, that our lives might be transformed by the truth. Pray that it may be so.

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